our baby is coming home!!!



YES IT'S HERE!!! I can hardly believe it!!!! Day 122!

A funny story... I was on the phone with Andy when ASIA called. He was talking to me about work when I heard the beep for call waiting. I look at the caller ID.... it says ASIA!!!! Andy kept talking and I HUNG UP on him!!!! "HELLO?" I said (my heart was in my throat because I was trying not to get my hopes up...)

"I have some good news for you!" Jojo said... "We have your LOA!" And then I think I screamed into the phone, "WHAT???", she starts laughing and I start crying!!! Oh, I felt like I could FLY! (And of course I called Andy back and he forgave me for hanging up on him!!!) He even ran home so he could give everybody a hug, even little Grant, who has no clue what an LOA is - but he is excited because everyone else is!! We are over the MOON!

Jojo said our LOA will be at our doorstep tomorrow, and they are going to push to get us to China and BACK before Chinese New Year (which starts the end of January). This means we would probably leave mid-January - at the latest!!! Oh my goodness... I have to start thinking about my packing list (thank you Trina!)... this is going to come up FAST!

Today is the last day of our fundraiser at To China For Owen!!!! (Perfect timing, isn't it??) We are absolutely AMAZED at the huge response we have had. I am constantly brought to tears at the generosity of this community of friends we have. God is truly working through each one of you who have given. We did NOT have the money for this trip. We did not know how we were going to come up with enough. God answered - through your gifts!! We now have raised over $6,000 - well over what we were hoping!!! What excites us MOST is that we will be able to give The Elison Project a nice amount to grant to another adoptive family in need. We know what it is like to wonder where that last amount is going to come from, and it truly blesses me to know that this 20% we give back may be how God brings another child home. When you give to this fundraiser, you are actually helping TWO families!!! So from us and THEM, whoever THEY are, THANK YOU!!!

For now, I am going to go finish my happy dance (I had to take a little break, and come tell ya'll the good news...), say another prayer of thanks, kiss my kids, and just enjoy this feeling!!! My baby is coming home!!!!!!!!

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I am soooooo excited about this new site!!! As many of you know, I am very passionate about special needs children finding families, so when my friend Stefanie asked me to help her make this vision reality - I was thrilled!! It took many months of planning - Stef worked so hard gathering everything, emailing with families and compiling pictures and information. When the site design came together, it was just beautiful to see it finally launched! Stefanie - THANK YOU for putting your heart & soul into this. Also a huge thank you to Amie and TM, two equally incredible women who will be contributing to the site along with myself. I am humbled to be a part of this!

When Andy and I first started our adoption process, we were not at all open to special needs. Looking back, I now know that my reasons were probably the same reasons that many families do not pursue the SN program. Fear, misinformation, lack of education, lack of connectedness to other families who have "been there". This site answers all those concerns. You will not only find materials to educate yourself about special needs, but you will find stories of families just like yours, who have brought these children into their lives. And you'll find blogs of families who have adopted children with the same special need you're considering. We even have waiting children listings! As the site grows, so will the resources. Our prayer is that God would use this endeavor - even through these broken vessels - to bring HIM glory in seeing many more waiting children find their families! There is no better reward than that.

As you may notice from the screenshot, No Hands But Ours was quickly nominated for a Divine Caroline award for the "neighborhood & world" category. We only need about 170 votes to overtake the leaders in this category! I would love to see this site win to gain even more exposure so that we can get the word out. Would you consider taking 2 minutes of your time to vote? If you have multiple email addresses, you can sign up for an account with each one! Just these few moments of your time could make a huge difference. Here is the badge so you can click right over:




If you have a blog, you might consider installing one of these site buttons to help us raise awareness.


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If you have knowledge you can share - your family story, a website you find helpful, etc. - there is an email address on the site where you can submit that information. We appreciate your input!

A few personal pics to end this post:

Today was the last day of homeschool co-op until January - we celebrated with a skating party! Here are a couple of photos. I didn't spend much time behind my camera as Claire wanted me to help her learn to skate. :) It was her first time and she did GREAT!

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I'm afraid this one is a little grainy, but I LOVE it for the expressions on everyone's faces, so I am linking the large size so you can see them! The little boy who won the limbo... is THREE! When he made it under the bar, everybody at the rink cheered for him!!!

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We will really miss going to co-op on Thursdays. Of course, we'll be back after the New Year!

Here is one last picture, of Grant playing with his train on our coffeetable. This was in very low lighting, so again, not the greatest picture quality but I still like it. :)

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Maybe tomorrow will be the day we hear good news!! Day 122 has a nice ring to it, doesn't it??? COME ON LOA!

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For the vision is yet for the appointed time;
It hastens toward the goal and it will not fail.
Though it tarries, wait for it;
For it will certainly come.
{Habakkuk 2:3}


This post is not about me... it's for you.

For the mommies and daddies who are waiting for your children.

For the hearts that ache to feel complete. For the arms that long to hold your little one. For the hands that will touch, the words that will heal, and the laughter that will make this wait a distant memory... someday.

For the nights you have dreamed about the little face you will soon see.

For the tears you have cried over a little picture... that you have studied 1,000 times.

For the faith you keep, the love you give, the hope you cling to. For your belief that the end of the journey is worth all of it.

Keep the faith, waiting friends... it will certainly come.



And no our LOA is not here!! :) But on day 120, I'm optimistic it is coming SOON!

our little owen

ETA: Thank you Aimee, for the little "workaround"! I now have a login that I can share with those of you who would like to visit our private blog. You may email me at rebecca30 AT comcast DOT net for the login (please include your blog address). Just remember that if you leave a comment, you will have to sign your name so we know who you are. :)


There is a new post on Our Little Owen!

I have had many people ask about invitations to Owen's private blog and I'm sorry I haven't responded to each person individually. Blogger only allows 100 readers and I have 100! I wish I were able to invite more. As soon as we are able to travel to China, that blog will become public so that everyone can see the pictures & video we received while we waited.

waiting children

ASIA has several children on their private waiting list whose files will be returned to China next month. Maybe someone reading this has been thinking about adoption, or considering China's special needs program. These kids are waiting for families to call their own. Wouldn't it be wonderful if they all received the gift of a family for Christmas?


Waiting Child: Kylie
Sex: F
Age: 3
Special Need: Abnormal DST

Kylie’s name means exquisite. She likes to play with kids. She likes going to the street and playing with toys like electronic organs making sound. Kylie is outgoing, active and restless. She has a ready smile, likes to play with kids, listen to music and watch cartoons. She is energetic and likes outdoor activity. She could straighten her hands and feet at the age of 4 months, raise her head up at the age of 7 months and her eyesight could follow moving objects at the age of 10 months. Kylie could roll over or lie on her side at the age of 11 months, hold a toy for a moment when her palm was touched by it at the age of 12 months, sit up with her wrist supported at the age of 15 months, catch toys near her hands at the age of 18 months and crawl on bed at the age of 23 months. The child’s physical development is more delayed than kids of the same age.


Waiting Child: Chase
Sex: F
Age: 4
Special Need: Cleft Microblepharia (eye lids too tight)

Chase is gentle, generous, easygoing, and gets along well with others. She does not lose her temper easily. She was able to smile upon admission. She had facial expressions of communication, could hold things with both hands and had natural motion of feet and hands. At the age of 6 months she could sit alone, would be happy and express her joyful mind at meeting familiar people. She likes playing with paper boxes, feeding bottles and little drums etc. She plays with them attentively and happily. She likes running around at home and playing games with kids. When asked for the toys or food in her hands, she will look very angry and cry. She is attached to her caretaker and will look for the caretaker when she is not at home. She has facial expressions of looking forward to the returning of the caretaker. When seeing the caretaker she will run to her for cuddles happily.


Waiting Child: Shawn
Sex: M
Age: 6 1/2
Special Need: Repaired Tetra logy of Fallot, Thumb Deformity and Missing Left Thumb, Repaired Inguinal Hernia.

Shawn had surgery to repair his heart condition in November of 2004. He has an easygoing personality, likes to play with his caretakers, can call mama unconsciously, makes some actions as required and can walk with one hand supported. He entered a foster family in July 2004. At the age of 29 months when his parents were doing things, he could sit on a bench alone and turn the pages of a book to read quietly, could point to the pictures he was especially interested in with his hands and ask his parents to look at them. He was potty trained in the daytime and could wave goodbye proactively. His favorite game was making a phone call. If he heard the telephone at home ringing he would strive to receive it first. After his operation he made great progress developmentally. In 2005 he went to Kindergarten and was praised by his teachers for following along and asking questions. Although he was the youngest in class, he had the best behavior in all respects. He liked to listen to the teachers in class quietly, liked performing and drawing. Shawn got 3 little red flowers in just half a month.


Waiting Child: Felicity
Age: 1.5 Years
Sex: F
Special Need: Cleft Lip and Palate, Tetrallogy of Fallot *ASIA is trying to work with LWB for Felicity's surgery

Felicity is outgoing, active and lovely. She learned to crawl at 9 months and crawled quickly to get her favorite toys. She likes listening to music and is very lovely when she shakes her body to the rhythm. She likes being held by caretakers and laughs happily. She eats slowly because of her cleft and cannot speak currently, but she can understand simple sentences from caretakers. When her caretakers see her lovely look, they willingly make more time to hold her.


Waiting Child: Paige
Age: 9 Years
Sex: F
Special Need: Congenital Heart Disease *ASIA is sponsoring Paige's surgery!

Paige can run and jump, go up and down stairs without help and has good balance. She has good self-care skills and is polite. She likes her teacher and her nannies and can help adults with easy tasks. She is good at imitating and can imitate many actions of adults. She understands right and wrong and is very curious. She loves to explore new things and cares about the people and things around her. Paige is extroverted and active and gets along well with other children. She enjoys the outdoors and likes new toys. Paige listens to her teachers well and cooperates to fulfill all the academic tasks. She knows shapes, colors and the names and functions of things in daily life. She is able to classify things and can express herself verbally.


Waiting Child: Jayne
Age: 10 Years
Sex: F
Special Need: Thalessemia, possible Hep B

Jayne has normal physical and intellectual development. Upon admission, she could go up and down stairs alone, point out various parts of her body and at the age of 4 years, she could have meals alone and was potty trained. At 5 and 6 years old, she liked to learn songs and dances by following her teachers and she got along well with her classmates. She helped look after the younger sisters and brothers. She went to school at age 7 and played very happily with her classmates. She is studying in grade 3. Jayne is bright and cute, active and restless and very adorable. She is not talkative, but likes music and drawing best.


If you would like to see pictures or review any of these children's files, email Marci Siegel at marcisk@asiadopt.org or call 503-224-1860.

And, if you want to learn more about China's special needs program, there is a wonderful new site that you must visit. My friend Stefanie has had this vision for quite some time, and it's so exciting to see it become reality! The website is No Hands But Ours. You can read the stories of families who have adopted special needs; learn about what the different needs are; and find resources to help you become educated & connected.

first snowfall

I woke up this morning to lazy snowflakes drifting outside my window. While I complain some winters as I scrape the ice off my windshield, I really couldn't imagine not having the beauty of all 4 seasons. They are such a reminder to me of God's faithfulness - and how unchanging He is in the midst of such a changing world.

In this photo, I liked how 3 seasons are represented. You can still see vestiges of summer... the green grass beneath the snow... and the fall leaves clinging to the trees.



"Blessed be the name of God forever and ever,
to Whom belong wisdom and might.
He changes times and seasons;
He removes kings and sets up kings;
He gives wisdom to the wise
and knowledge to those who have understanding;
He reveals deep and hidden things;
He knows what is in the darkness,
and the light dwells with Him."


Daniel 2:20-22

the lean green g-machine

It's a cold, rainy Saturday afternoon, and Mama(razzi) took advantage of the photo op! Here's some pics of The Little Prince in green.













































For this last picture I used my remote & tripod and shot in Av mode.


free makeover, and happy birthday mom!

I hope ya'll can commiserate with me somewhat. We had the most AMAZING people nominated for a free makeover, and I have to be the unlucky one to PICK! I thought about passing that responsibility off to random.org, but that would have been a cop-out, don't you think?

There was one person I was able to rule out right away, and that was Shelby... because she's already on my list. :) Some of her friends are pitching in to have a new site designed for The Elison Project, and the site will include a blog page! I am so excited to be able to help them with a spiffy new look.

In the end I decided that I'd like to do a blog design for M of Faith, Hope & Love. She was nominated by Meredith Teagarden at A Mother Singing. In her nomination, Meredith said, "She is a sweet woman living on a modest blog who always leaves a word of encouragement in comments and her own posts."

M's writing reveals a woman of character who puts God and family first. I love how she always includes a verse at the end of each post. She is an amazing homeschooling mother to her son J and is in the midst of the long "China wait" for her daughter (LID 4-2007). I admire her family, her faith and her spirit. And, she loves posting lots of pictures, so I know she would really enjoy a new design that would allow her to better highlight her photos. (Besides the fact that she has never HAD a blog design!)

Congratulations to M - and for all of our other nominations, I was truly so touched by each person and their story, it made it VERY VERY difficult for me to choose!

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I couldn't end this post without saying "Happy Birthday Mom". I've been blessed with the best mom in the world. Now that I have my own passel of kids, I look back and wonder how she DID all that she did!

Thank you, Mom, for everything that you are to me... not just a mom to me & Nanna to my kids, but an inspiration and a friend. I love you so much.




This picture is of my mom and I in 2005. We both had 1 year of college before getting married, and with my mom's encouragement we both went BACK to school full-time at the same time and graduated with our bachelor's degrees the same spring... both of us with honors! My mom has a teaching degree (secondary ed) and mine is in business/marketing. It was so much fun being in school at the same time and talking about our profs, the funny things that happened in class or the projects we were working on. Oh, my, the memories are flooding back... I would leave for evening class the moment Andy got home from work, and I'd run back to the house to breastfeed Claire while we were on break! (She was 2 months old when I went back to school.) I remember tapping her little bouncy seat with my foot while I researched global economies!! School days... that's for another post I guess.

they're winning me over to the dark side

Stef & Amie, 2 of my favoritest bloggy friends, tagged me for Honest Crap... I mean Honest Scrap. I have now discovered the hole in my Tag Armor: getting tagged twice for the same thing. I guess it pushes me over the edge and into the Tag Abyss.





In order to accept this Bloggy Award/Tag in disguise, you must do the following:

1) When you receive the prize you must write a post showing it, together with the name of who has given it to you, and link them back.
2) Choose a minimum of 7 blogs that you find brilliant in their content or design.
3) Show their names and links and leave them a comment informing they were prized with ‘Honest Weblog’.
4) List [if you can and/or dare] at least ten honest things about yourself. And then, pass it on.



10 Honest Things About Me (and complimentary photos from around my house)


~ 1. I love names. I am a member of a couple of online baby naming boards and I love suggesting names for people or critiquing their name lists. Especially girls' names. Right now my favorite names are old fashioned names (like Stella and Penelope) and hippie names (like Eden and Sage)... and quirky ones (like Coco and Juno). If we ever adopted a girl I would love to name her Pearl Frances, for both Andy's and my grandmothers.

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(My dog-eared copy of my favorite naming book...)



~ 2. I just ripped October off my calendar today. I got tired of flipping it over to see what's going on this month. Thought you all would enjoy a picture of it, so I took it out of the trash can and snapped this keeper:

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~ 3. My grandfather was the architect of the Louisiana Superdome. I have a picture of him in front of the 'Dome, on the wall next to my computer desk. He passed away over 10 years ago, but he has never really left. His fingerprints are still all over his family, his friends, and his beautiful architecture all over the world. He was a fascinating person and someday I will do a post dedicated to him.


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~ 4. My mom was raised a southern belle; my dad, from a hard-working Detroit family. Mom's family had a cook and a housekeeper and a buzzer under their dining room table. Dad's family lived in a small house, ate a lot of rye bread and beet soup (borscht) and pinched their pennies. Mom's background is French/English and her family line includes a queen of England. Dad's parents were 2nd-generation immigrants from Poland and Ukraine, whose parents left extreme poverty to come to America, get jobs, work hard and make a better life for themselves. Both sides of my family are the most loving, supportive, wonderful and generous people you will ever meet. And my parents are living proof that different worlds can not only collide, but harmoniously merge. 33 years ago this picture captured a happy moment between them; 33 years later they are still together and happy. I am blessed.


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~ 5. This is the only greenery I have in my house... and it's fake. I almost gave it to charity during my spring-cleaning binge, but since it's the only leafy thing I own, I decided to hang onto it. (I can't keep real plants alive for the life of me...)


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~ 6. I like unusual finds. These 2 pictures were from a church rummage sale and I think I paid $2.00 for both of them. One is of the French Quarter and the other of Royal Street. Since my mom's family is from New Orleans, I was drawn to them... besides the fact that they were abstract and kind of funky. I still haven't found out who the artist is (T. Meek Jr.?). Google hasn't come through for me on this one.

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~ 7. We live in a 1916 Arts & Crafts bungalow. When we bought our house 5-1/2 years ago, it wasn't the house that drew us, it was the location. But lately I've discovered that I am fascinated with our house, its character and the stories it might tell, if it had a voice. Our basement is actually much older than 1916. In 1914, a fire swept down our street and burned 9 houses to the ground, one of which was ours. 2 years later, someone rebuilt our house on top of the original basement. There are still charred black beams that were left in place when new ones were laid next to them to rebuild. Why not take them out and just replace them? Maybe someone wanted that piece of our house's history to remain.

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~ 8. I love color. I always have. And while I really love the look of monochrome or a neutral scheme, I've come to realize that I really couldn't live in it for a long time. I need color to feel happy. I am really into cobalt blue lately... that and emerald green. I love their strength, and how they can make a bold statement and yet be cool and reserved at the same time.

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~ 9. In my dining room (currently painted red) I have a gallery of old family photos. This is my favorite, of Andy's mom. I'm not sure when it was taken but I believe it was when she was newly married. I just love how fabulous she looks in the red dress and heels, sitting on the (now-antique) car. She is movie-star beautiful.

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~ 10. Since I've taken up photography, I see art almost everywhere I look. The other day we drove to a very small town to hike at a nature preserve, and there was this old dilapidated car wash... chipped, painted cement block with rusty streaks left from hard water. I pointed it out to Andy and said, "Now that's a good picture." Funny how beauty is really in perspective, not so much in the thing itself. This is a photo I took in my dining room, of the corner of our built-in hutch. I love the hard lines and then the softness of the curtain behind it.

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Here are the 7 lucky people I'm tagging... if they'd like to come over to the dark side, too. (Smirk.)

Melissa at Wen Love Calls
April at Party of Seven

Rachel at Wherever You Go...
Tisra at Lifetrain
FHL at Faith, Hope & Love
Krista at Bits & Pieces...
Tami at Sea Glass & Jade

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